Paul acknowledges that the couple's wedding planning budget is currently causing financial stress and recognizes the necessity of potentially choosing a more affordable option.

“I think I think what will happen is we will do it but we won't and we will be stressed about it the whole time”

Ramit warns against arbitrarily setting a large wedding budget based on social comparison without conducting a comprehensive financial analysis.

“do not do this do not I don't mind taking calculated risk but you have to know what the risk are and you have to build a healthy buffer for the risks you didn't plan on what they've done here is Multiplied risk times risk times risk and if one thing doesn't work out everything else comes”