Ramit warns against arbitrarily setting a large wedding budget based on social comparison without conducting a comprehensive financial analysis.

“do not do this do not I don't mind taking calculated risk but you have to know what the risk are and you have to build a healthy buffer for the risks you didn't plan on what they've done here is Multiplied risk times risk times risk and if one thing doesn't work out everything else comes”

Paul acknowledges that the couple's wedding planning budget is currently causing financial stress and recognizes the necessity of potentially choosing a more affordable option.

“I think I think what will happen is we will do it but we won't and we will be stressed about it the whole time”

Tom Thakkar believes that hosting a wedding party at a Dave & Buster's is a fun and cost-effective option for a wedding.

“It wasn't even that honestly for like whatever there was like 30 of us. We all got cards. We all got unlimited booze for three hours. There was food and it really wasn't that expensive. And I told you what I paid for you. Damn, I should have had my wedding here. He's genuinely upset.”

Couples should focus more on the marriage and the union between them than on the event of the wedding itself.

“I've said before, I think people focus way too much on the wedding and not enough on the marriage.”

A small guest list is a preferable way to manage a wedding.

“Let's do this amount. Let's make 18 people. 18 people. Like an audition dinner.”

He believes the groom's party should ideally include one's closest friends rather than just family.

“Luke even said, "Jesus Christ, no one's [ __ ] closer than you than us two." Currently, yes, of course. Currently, you're my [ __ ] guys since I've known you.”

Zach Justice plans to include his friends in his future wedding party.

“I got you okay I understand okay Jared here you've got a lot you should be there you should be there you guys great friends”