She views their current financial arrangement as an unhealthy parent-child dynamic where she is forced to seek permission for basic purchases.

“I do tell him often that it feels like he's my father in ways where I'm asking permission and it doesn't feel good because I know that we've gotten to where we are financially because of the both of us.”

He prefers a traditional relationship where he manages the money and provides for his family.

“Oh, absolutely. I'm I'm very uh I I prefer a traditional relationship and I'm glad that you know that I was able to find Ellen and she's happy to do it.”