One should not confuse love and pity in relationships.

“do never confuse love and pity that's basically what I want to say this person is never going to hit rock bottom and you're not going to give them the Dignity of their own experience how are they ever going to grow if you're going to keep helping them because you want to”

A partner should leave someone who is struggling rather than stay out of pity, to allow that person the opportunity to hit rock bottom and grow.

“if you're not happy you're never pity and love do never confuse love and pity that's basically what I want to say this person is never going to hit rock bottom and you're not going to give them the Dignity of their own experience”

One should not confuse love with pity when deciding whether to stay in a relationship.

“do never confuse love and pity that's basically what I want to say this person is never going to hit rock bottom and you're not going to give them the Dignity of their own experience how are they ever going to grow if you're going to keep helping them because you want to”

Proposing to a partner should be done in a way that respects the partner's desire for simplicity rather than following societal expectations for grand gestures.

“I listened to enough clues from her that that was not what she wanted nice she wanted something simple”