Retiring couples should establish their own individual and joint paths, maintaining separate activities and respecting each other's space rather than forcing 24/7 togetherness.

“In fact, I would say please don't spend 24 hours, seven days a week with each other. Right? I mean, that's you know, it's not that you shouldn't. It's not it's that you absolutely shouldn't. And that won't lead to on numerous occasions won't lead to the positive outcomes that you want.”