Financial dependence on parents in adulthood occurs because of a lack of accountability and the habit of avoiding consequences for one's actions.

“And so once again, you learn later in life that when you choose a behavior, you don't deal with the consequences. There's no accountability.”

The twins should be living on their own at their age and they are currently mooching off their parents.

“they're trying to create a car business but they're using my home as a base for their business but paying no overhead they're just mooching right now”

The twins need to move out because their behavior is driving their parents crazy.

“they need to be on their own they need to be on their own right so you want them gone they drive me crazy”

The mother believes that her son's and ex-daughter-in-law's financial demands are the core cause of the family's conflict.

“If they did not ask for any money, that would have been fine. I would not have mattered to me.”

He acknowledges he is intentionally mooching off his fiancee to survive.

“I guess I am living it right now. That my intention is actually mooching. So that's the best thing I can possibly do right now just to survive. And uh by mooching I have a roof over my head and you know a vehicle to drive and you know happy lifestyle for myself.”

Barbara believes that Chelsea must secure her own finances and is no longer willing to provide her with money.

“And I'm not paying for it anymore.”

Chelsea asserts that she is capable of managing her own life and finances if she is left to her own devices without family interference.

“I have to do this on my own.”