The disparity in finding partners is significantly higher for men than for women in the non-monogamous lifestyle.

“it's much easier for the females oh immensely easier orders of magnitude easier it's easier for Trans people it's easier for non-binary people if you're a white dude get in line get f just getting [ __ ] l”

Men are generally less popular than women when pursuing non-monogamous arrangements in party and dating app settings.

“I could go to like a party looking like I rolled around in a dumpster fire and then I can get some abber cromie male model that was Off The Runway to go to a party and I would get more hits than they would cuz I'm a female and that's how it works at like parties and in that lifestyle”