Women frequently experience unhappiness in marriage and often bear the primary responsibility for raising relationship issues.

“women tend to be more Unhappily Married than men and 80% of the time women bring up problems in a relationship”

The most effective way to be powerful in a relationship is to be open to influence from one's partner.

“the only way to be powerful in a relationship is to accept influence and it's so counterintuitive but that turns out to be really powerful that I I found that very surprising the only way to be powerful is basically to be influenceable be flexible be movable listen to your partner and try to accept ”

Successful partnerships require both individuals to work side by side rather than competing or one partner acting as a loser to the other.

“You do realize in order for a marriage to be successful, you need to both win. So, you know, some days you're going to win, some days he's going to win, some days you're going to lose, you know, vice versa. But you really seem to be very focused on making your husband a loser.”