Jason acknowledges that his own failure to establish firm boundaries with his mother and wife has contributed to their ongoing conflict.

“probably because I don't set boundaries on my mom and my wife exactly”

Dr. Phil maintains that it is the primary responsibility of a spouse to manage their own family members in a marriage.

“one thing we know for sure is in a marriage it's your job to manage your people it's your job to manage your people okay so if there's a problem if there's a problem with your mother that's your problem you you have to resolve”