Amanda claims that her online flirtations and other interactions with men were innocent and do not constitute actual cheating because she never intended to replace her husband.

“The emotional Affairs I don't look at them as a big deal I don't call it cheating a quick hug was really all that I've ever done I was never planning on having sex I do like the the tingly feeling you get as far as falling in love and the newness of it but these were definitely just fantasies”