A successful relationship depends on the partners creating a solid friendship, meeting each other's needs, and taking individual responsibility for their behavior.

“The formula for success in a relationship is this. I'm going to write this down and put it on the internet. The quality of a relationship is a function of the extent to which number one it is based on a solid underlying friendship.”

He believes that falling in love again after a traumatic life event is a matter of choice and building new memories rather than relying on the past.

“It wasn't as though I fluffy fell back in love with him. It was more of a choice and I chose to love Kim the second time around.”