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Episodes · 12 months
280
Nov 2025–Oct 2026peak share, Sep 2026
Share of analysed episodes per month, Nov 2025 to Oct 2026: 24 of 3,584, 24 of 3,862, 22 of 4,115, 18 of 4,226, 33 of 4,731, 21 of 4,438, 18 of 4,230, 23 of 4,319, 17 of 4,515, 21 of 4,419, 38 of 4,624, 21 of 4,594.
All time
765
+37 via 21 narrower
On record
174
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Where they standLast discussed
3d ago
Nov 10, 2026
Who's talking
Top voices on this topicThe eight guests on the most episodes about this topic in the last 13 weeks, not counting their own shows or clips they were only heard in, most episodes first. VoiceRank (their score across the whole corpus) is shown for context and only breaks a tie. Each strip is that guest's episodes week by week, and the newest week is still in progress.
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All shows
Episodes on this topic per week, weeks starting Aug 17 to Nov 9 (the last still in progress): 6, 1, 7, 9, 14, 6, 3, 9, 4, 3, 4, 6, 1.
Where they stand
Camps of opinion · 3Positions people took on this topic in transcripts, grouped by school of thought. The bar shows each camp's share of the people sorted into a camp. It is not a poll and not a share of any audience, and people whose position fit no camp are left out of it. Within a camp, people with demonstrated expertise on the topic come first, then those who reached the most listeners on it. Positions are extracted from transcripts by a model and may misattribute who said what. Every quote links to the episode it came from.
Share of people placed in a camp42 people
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- Prioritize immediate safety exit20 people · 48%
- Shift focus to abuser accountability14 people · 33%
- Recognize high-risk escalation phases8 people · 19%
Prioritize immediate safety exit
Victims must prioritize their safety by exiting abusive relationships immediately or discreetly when they recognize the danger.
20 people · 17 episodes
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She advises that women should leave abusive relationships immediately upon the first instance of violence or disrespect, as abusive behavior inevitably escalates.
“get the [ __ ] out like it is not worth it the material things are not worth it the money is not worth it the fake love is not worth it like just get the [ __ ] out like if I could just give any woman a message like if he hit you once he's going to hit you again”
Soft White Underbelly · Mar 2025 · 1 episode · 1.9M views on this topicGG
Victims of domestic violence should not ignore red flags and should seek help or leave before their situation escalates to lethal severity.
“Just because it hasn't reached the severity that mine did yet, doesn't mean it won't. And if you are being undervalued in any area of your relationship to where anything that I just talked about is resonating, you really need to take the time and consider your options”
We’re All Insane · Aug 2023 · 2 episodes · 1.2M views on this topicAR
Abusive behavior is never justified by someone having a bad day, and early warning signs like raised voices should prompt a person to end the relationship immediately.
“If you're dating a man and he starts raising his voice at you, that's a red flag. Doesn't matter how much you like someone, you have to write off because the first time this man got angry at me and I said, "Oh, yeah, he's probably just having a bad day." escalated to my nec”
Unfiltered Stories · Mar 2026 · 1 episode · 248K views on this topicShift focus to abuser accountability
Public and systemic discourse should center on holding the abuser accountable rather than blaming the victim for staying or failing to…
14 people · 14 episodes
Public discourse focuses too much on why a woman remains in an abusive relationship instead of questioning why the abuser is not held accountable.
“when people from the outside are like, "But she could have just left." What upsets me about that is there's so much emphasis put on why didn't the woman do something about it and the question isn't why did he not stop abusing her?”
Call Her Daddy · Mar 2026 · 4 episodes · 7.2M views on this topic
She asserts that domestic violence should be identified as terrorism and emphasizes that the burden of stopping abuse should be on the aggressor rather than the victim.
“So, as I said, you spent all this time interviewing victims and law enforcement and abusers themselves. And you say I I this this is I If you get nothing else from this today, I hope we can make the shift in our culture. You say the term domestic violence, which I've used over the years, everybody u”
Oprah · Jun 2026 · 2 episodes · 4.8M views on this topic
Derrick suggests that while Caleb is the primary perpetrator, Aaliyah bears a significant portion of the blame for the motive and the lead-up to the murder.
“As far as the relationship and the motive to kill Ashley Flynn, it's 50/50 between him and Aaliyah.”
Crime Weekly · Oct 2026 · 11 episodes · 2.1M views on this topicRecognize high-risk escalation phases
The period of attempting to leave or end an abusive relationship is the most dangerous and volatile time for a domestic violence victim.
8 people · 8 episodes
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Non-fatal strangulation is the number one indicator of a future homicide in domestic violence cases.
“So, so data and research over the last 20 years has shown that non-fatal strangulation is the number one indicator of a future homicide, particularly in domestic violence situations involving uh female uh females who are targeted for abuse.”
Gavin Fish · Mar 2026 · 3 episodes · 68K views on this topic
Lisa Bilyeu claims that leaving an abusive relationship is often the most dangerous time for a victim due to the high risk of escalation to violence.
“Leaving is often the most dangerous time. 77% of domestic violence related homicides occur upon separation.”
Lisa Bilyeu · Oct 2026 · 13 episodes · 5.0M views on this topicJM
Jason Mater describes the highest risk for domestic violence victims occurs when they are attempting to leave or have already left a relationship.
“That's the highest risk for any victim of domestic violence is when they're leaving or when they have left.”
True Crime News · Mar 2026 · 4 episodes · 1.2M views on this topicExtracted by a model; may misattribute who said what.
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Share of episodesThis topic's episodes as a share of every episode we analysed, in each complete month. We analyse more episodes every month, so a raw count would mostly show that growth. Recent months fill in as transcripts are analysed.
Complete months · first on record Jun 2018