Bob believes that seeing someone who wronged you face consequences for their actions is a satisfying and beautiful experience.

“when someone is just addicted to you for no reason or it feels like no reason or unnecessarily rude it's just nice when they're served a slice of humble pie and i don't know what it is about us like people where it's like we thrive off of that but there's something built into us where it's like i gu”

Revenge seeking is a maladaptive, addictive behavior that provides a brief dopamine high but ultimately causes personal and societal harm by failing to address root causes.

“revenge is the root motivation behind almost all forms of violence.”

Revenge is a potentially addictive, primitive, and powerful motivator that can drive individuals to commit acts of violence when they experience rejection.

“there's research showing that revenge is an addictive like it that it's in in many ways the desire for revenge is more addictive than all the drugs you can imagine that are addictive.”