Monthly episodes discussing this topic, 2019-01 to 2026-07.
Positions people took on this topic in transcripts, grouped by school of thought. Within a camp, people with demonstrated expertise on the topic come first, then those who reached the most listeners on it. Every quote links to the episode it came from.
Infidelity is an inherently wrong act of betrayal that fundamentally damages trust and causes profound harm to the relationship.
17 people · 14 episodes
Kendall Rae views Crystal Lee Kenny's actions as a deep betrayal and expresses extreme moral condemnation for her involvement in the murder.
“she is a c you next Tuesday she is a she is a vile human in my opinion and quite frankly I hate her”
Kendall Rae · Sep 2024 · 7 episodes · 10.6M views on this topicPewDiePie believes that cheating on a partner is inherently wrong and that someone who cheats does not deserve to remain in that relationship.
“You cheated on her [ __ ] what like what do you expect it's not that complicated you don't deserve to stay with her”
PewDiePie · Jul 2015 · 2 episodes · 8.1M views on this topicInfidelity constitutes a betrayal of trust that defines the person as a negative character regardless of the passage of time.
“any girl cheated on me as a whole for her life for her whole life al operates her whole life her whole life she's a hoe”
Flagrant · Aug 2020 · 3 episodes · 3.4M views on this topicAshley K maintains that discovering her husband's infidelity caused her profound personal humiliation and distress.
“to have a gun tell me that I wasn't enough for it to stay at home and to have a man so angry that I wasn't enough and my children weren't enough for him to beat the crap out of him and that would have been fine he probably deserved that”
Dr. Phil · Dec 2024 · 1 episode · 1.7M views on this topicKandi acknowledges that engaging in an affair was the most selfish action she has ever taken.
“an affair is a self the most selfish thing you can do it is the worst thing I've ever done”
Dr. Phil · Dec 2024 · 1 episode · 1.7M views on this topicInfidelity is often driven by unmet personal or emotional needs, lack of satisfaction, or a desire for novelty within the marriage.
8 people · 8 episodes
Infidelity often stems from a sense of deadness or lack of vitality in a relationship rather than just lust or boredom.
“the real reason people cheat isn't always about what we assume. It's not just about lust or boredom or one too many margaritas. It's about something far more unsettling and sad. A sense of deadness in the relationship.”
Chris Williamson · Aug 2025 · 2 episodes · 1.1M views on this topicCheating is often a complex issue where individuals seek novelty or satisfaction, and marriages can sometimes survive it if the couple is committed to the long-term partnership.
“Most married men will go, "Oh yeah, okay." Like I kind of get that like the difference because again I I think there is something really true about you can't some of the freaky [ __ ] you want to do in your head. Blame Pornhub, you know, it's it's it's on all everybody's heads.”
Flagrant · Mar 2025 · 3 episodes · 12.6M views on this topicA secret affair is only exciting when it remains forbidden and nonchalant, rather than being burdened by routine or administrative lies.
“I want it to be nonchalant and Care want banging an Aly out behind a calf do you know what I mean we need to sneakily get these moments together I don't want routine plans so I can sleep at your yard like no we're doing a double relationship and it's not sexy anymore I want an affair”
ShxtsnGigs Podcast · Feb 2023 · 2 episodes · 2.3M views on this topicAffairs are often driven by a desire to satisfy unmet needs that are not being addressed within a stable but perhaps unexciting primary relationship.
“people are trying to get all of their needs and desires met across multiple relationships. So if you're in a stable, secure, loving relationship, you don't need more security. You don't need more stability. You might need some excitement.”
Soft White Underbelly · Apr 2025 · 1 episode · 889K views on this topicEd believes that his actions leading to the dissolution of his marriage were a result of feeling lonely and frustrated in his home life.
“I was starved for attention, starved for physical pleasure. I was just desperately lonely at home and very frustrated.”
Dr. Phil · Apr 2026 · 1 episode · 221K views on this topicPositions are extracted from transcripts by a model and may misattribute who said what. Every quote links to the episode it came from.
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