In this episode, I spoke with Vanessa Bennett and John Kim about the dynamics of relationships. Together we discussed their book that they co-wrote, called "It's Not Me, It's You," different relationship attachment styles, common relationship problems, vulnerability and discernment, couples sleeping in separate beds, and much more. Vanessa Bennett is a licensed Holistic Psychotherapist, Clinical Entrepreneur, Author, and the Co-Host of the Cheaper Than Therapy Podcast. Vanessa received her Masters in counseling at the Pacifica Graduate Institute, where she focused primarily on Counseling Psychology. John Kim, also known as "The Angry Therapist," is a licensed Therapist and Life Coach, Host of The Angry Therapist Podcast, a best selling Author, and the Co-Founder of the TAT Lab and Lumia Coach Training. Thanks for tuning in. If you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe! —Links— Get Vanessa and John's New Book: https://amzn.to/3DhL22O Follow Vanessa Bennett On Her Website: https://www.vanessabennett.com/about YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3TwhkSJxcmZyfs-fwcZYbg Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6J1xpavG5VCNxsBTwOaIbi Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vanessabennettcoaching/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasbennett/?hl=en Medium: https://vanessasbennett.medium.com/ Follow John Kim On His website: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/theangrytherapist Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7BoPI1uJyrSQUb0JRGNJoD Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theangrytherapist Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theangrytherapist/?hl=en Medium: https://angrytherapist.medium.com/ Follow Me On: All Platforms: https://linktr.ee/mikhailapeterson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mikhailapetersonpodcast Twitter: https://twitter.com/mikhailafuller Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mikhailapeterson/ Telegram: https://t.me/mikhailapeterson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mikhailapeterson Chapters _____________ #itsnotmeitsyou #relationshippsychology #couplestherapy #attachmentstyles #mikhailapeterson