💰 Get my NEW book, Make Money Easy! https://lewishowes.com/moneyyou 🔔 Subscribe for more great content: https://www.youtube.com/lewishowes ▶️ ▶️ Recommended for you: https://youtu.be/ONnVyqE3H7A?si=eX4np6J7ERN-rLcZ Today, Lewis sits down with best-selling author Neil Strauss to explore the complex world of relationships, infidelity, and how to spot a manipulator. Strauss opens up about his own journey from infidelity to intimacy rehab, sharing powerful lessons on rebuilding trust and nurturing secure connections. He delves into the psychology behind cheating and the signs that can indicate whether a partner might be unfaithful. Strauss provides a candid look into his most secure and insecure moments in adulthood, discusses the challenges of monogamy, and reveals the keys to a healthy relationship. Listen to this episode on the go! 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-school-of-greatness/id596047499 🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/07GQhOZboEZOE1ysnFLipT?si=a03d916bade54d4f For more info about this episode, go to https://lewishowes.com/1614 📙 get my NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLING book "The Greatness Mindset" today! https://lewishowes.com/gmyo 📤 sign up for my FREE newsletter https://lewishowes.com/greatnessdelivered Follow Lewis! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewishowes/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lewis Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lewishowes/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/LewisHowes 💻 Website: http://lewishowes.com/ 📲 For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960 Get More Greatness! Greatness Clips: https://www.youtube.com/@GreatnessClips Spanish: https://www.youtube.com/@LewisHowesEspanol Portuguese: https://www.youtube.com/@LewisHowesPortugues Lewis Howes Shorts: https://www.youtube.com/@lewishowesmoney 0:00 Intro 00:03:34 - Recovery after Cheating and Signs of a Potential Cheater 00:07:28 - The Evolution of Relationship Structures 00:11:19 - Choosing Healthy Relationships 00:14:49 - Insecurity in Relationships 00:18:24 - Healing and Self-Reflection 00:22:11 - The Healing Process and the Power of Therapy Groups 00:25:44 - Creating a Safe Space for Men to Share Their Feelings 00:29:06 - The Impact of Enmeshment 00:32:38 - The Inner Child and Emotional Safety 00:36:18 - Healing and Transforming Through Personal Journey 00:40:18 - The Key Question of Behavior and Belief 00:43:59 - Awareness and Honesty in Relationships 00:47:31 - Setting Boundaries in Relationships 00:50:57 - Communicating in Relationships 00:54:14 - The Importance of Uncomfortable Conversations 00:57:37 - The Toxicity of Seeking Self-Esteem from Others 01:01:20 - Training in Seduction and Manipulation 01:05:23 - Techniques of Manipulation 01:08:58 - Signs of a Healthy Relationship 01:12:37 - Manipulation Techniques: Circles of Hell, Flattery & Anchoring 01:16:12 - Lessons Learned from Childhood 01:19:42 - Acknowledgement of Neil's Commitment 01:23:00 - Defining Greatness and Happiness #greatness #inspiration #motivation