In this coaching session, Jillian helps a listener untangle what he thought was anxious attachment and reveals what may actually be happening instead: he’s getting emotionally invested before a real relationship has even begun. She breaks down the difference between pursuing and chasing, why texting can create a false sense of intimacy, and how to stop wasting energy on people who aren’t truly showing up. This episode is also a powerful reminder that the more alive, engaged, and fulfilled you feel in your own life, the less likely you are to confuse attention with connection. Join The Conscious Woman Waitlist https://jillianturecki.com/waitlist Join my community and membership https://www.jillianturecki.com/membership Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 Order Jillian's NEW book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com ~~ Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon 🍏 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049 https://www.patreon.com/c/jillianonlove ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki Visit her website at https://www.jillianturecki.com/ ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us!