He denies that he exclusively prefers dating women significantly younger than himself.

“listen I don't care about the age it's what I see”

People should evaluate potential partners on core character qualities like emotional stability and reliability rather than superficial deal breakers.

“So, people need to have higher standards about the character qualities, things that are important to them like loyalty, reliability, emotional stability, um, again, emotional generosity.”

David Cooley claims that women in committed relationships or marriages should obey their men.

“So if a woman is in a committed relationship or a marriage with a man, she chose to be with that man. My argument is she should obey that man.”

Looking for the one is a mistake because there are many potential partners one could be happy with.

“looking for the one is a big mistake because inevitably they snore at night or you know they eat with their mouth open or you know something that drives you crazy”

Men can increase their attractiveness by focusing on physical fitness, being in environments where they can interact with women, and gaining social confidence through practice.

“go to the gym three times a week for a year like you're in the top percentile of all Fitness people on the planet if you do that like that's how low the bar is right also the average American man is obese Divorced with less than 1K in the bank”

Playing games in dating indicates a person's desire to protect their ego rather than establish a genuine connection.

“they're entering relationship with a desire to preserve their ego rather than truly connect with that person”

Trying to fake confidence during dating often results in off-putting behavior and does not lead to genuine connection.

“as a matter of fact when people try to fake confidence they often um overstep it”

He claims that when breaking up with a partner, it is effective to behave in subtle ways to make them want to break up with you instead of directly ending the relationship.

“Do you ever do it so that you give her a reason to break up with you instead I do that all the time oh my god oh this is oh that's what I do yeah”

He advocates for men to adopt a strategy of treating women as expendable commodities in the dating market because that is how they are treated.

“No, I tell guys I tell [laughter] guys to date date like women do. And you treat them like expendable commodities as well because my thing is this, I I see what you're saying like as far as like finding a pure girl, but you're going to have to be able to identify the bad ones to know what a good one”

Spending time with a romantic interest in natural environments where they are with other people provides the best insight into their true personality.

“I feel like you get a good image of who the person is through through interacting with them that way”

He does not intentionally pursue a kiss on the first date.

“My intention is never to expect a kiss on the first date. I'm also not going to like lean in at the end of the date and try and kiss the girl because I just met you.”

He prefers relationships that involve long-term commitment and good communication.

“but I'm not sure it probably says I want a long-term relationship and I like good communication and stuff”

He prefers being honest about his lack of interest in a romantic partner rather than pretending he is invested when he is not.

“I'm Just Not That Into You cuz if I was I would be texting a lot more”

He believes that communication is essential for maintaining a healthy relationship.

“it's it's true communication is the key communication is ke is key”

He prefers to be straightforward and clear about his intentions when dating to avoid ambiguity.

“I was like I'm not going to do the ambiguous like is this a date is it not a date thing I think he was just like really excited by my um like I I was just very specific by my with my needs”

Women should trust their intuition that they are turned off rather than looking for a multitude of reasons to justify ending a relationship.

“I think a lot of women like to say I hear women, smart women, talk about how confused they are. College educated women are like, I I just don't know what's going on here and I'm like, you do know what's going on here. You have permission to be turned off”

Jordana Abraham believes that if someone is confused by another person's behavior, they are actually being turned off, and they should trust that instinct.

“And I think learning to be turned off instead of confused would have been very helpful to me.”