You can't attract what you're not. If you want someone kind, successful and hardworking, ask yourself one thing first: are you? In this episode, Sara and Jay Shetty talk about why good people keep attracting the wrong person. Sara has been in five relationships and two marriages. She kept finding the same man in a different body. Then she stopped pointing the finger and asked what her part was. She shares why nerves on a date can be a red flag, not butterflies. She explains why the calm, boring guy might be the one. And she tells the story of a friend who had three amazing months with a man who then vanished. JAY'S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX Join 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe https://news.jayshetty.me/subscribe Watch the FULL episode on Netflix & Spotify 🎙️ Netflix - https://dub.sh/QaUsKeD Spotify - https://dub.sh/axUXylv Full Episode With Sara Al Madani: https://youtu.be/yWsf35yrsfA Episode Resources: Website | https://saraalmadani.com/ Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/iamsaraalmadani/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/saraalmadani/ TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@saraalmadani X | https://x.com/sara_almadani