Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Jillian Turecki, a relationship coach in Miami, Florida. Feeling stuck? BetterHelp makes therapy simple, with 10% off your first month to help you get started: https://www.betterhelp.com/softwhiteunderbelly (Sponsored by BetterHelp) Here’s a link to Jillian’s book, It Begins With You: https://a.co/d/1zY7Ziu For ad-free, uncensored videos and plenty of exclusive content please subscribe to the Soft White Underbelly subscription channel at softwhiteunderbelly.com. It's $10 a month and watchable on Apple and Android mobile apps, Roku TV, Apple TV and Amazon Fire. 0:08 – Why Relationships Are Hard 2:24 – Choosing The Right Partner 5:05 – Childhood & Patterns 5:36 – Better Help Ad 6:44 – Doing The Work 9:09 – Common Mistakes In Love 14:02 – Rescue & Codependency 15:11 – Technology & Modern Dating 18:42 – Jillian’s Personal Story 22:21 – Heartbreak As Motivation 26:45 – Fantasy vs Reality Of Love 33:48 – Mark’s Relationship Patterns 38:14 – Loss, Grief & Therapy 41:11 – Dating After Loss 46:16 – Why Relationships Fail 48:43 – Healing After Betrayal 54:00 – Breaking Cycles 59:34 – Forgiveness & Letting Go 1:09:17 – It Begins With You (Book) Here's how to purchase the Soft White Underbelly books and merch: https://softwhiteunderbelly.org. #swu #softwhiteunderbelly #documentary #marklaita #relationships #couples #humancondition #mentalhealth