Check out my FREE 4-Part Confidence Workshop! - https://bit.ly/3fZcbO5 On Today's Episode: Being disrespected by the people closest to you is never easy to handle. You’re more likely to make excuses, ignore it or give the people you love most a pass when something they say or do blatantly offends you. When was the last time a close friend or family member said something totally inappropriate to you, and how did you react? The problem is, when the disrespect is repeated and glossed over with a laugh and their favorite defense, “I was just playing, don’t be so uptight!” So, how do you put an end to them crossing the line, demand their respect, and stand up for yourself because it actually matters to you? Tracy Tutor is the celebrity agent you’ve seen on Million Dollar Listing LA that’s not afraid to conduct business confidently in a crop top and heels. She is not going to be intimidated or silenced when it comes to honoring her boundaries, and even she has been victim to the disrespect and inappropriate comments from people closest to her. As a luxury real estate agent at the top in Beverly Hills, Tracy is closing multimillion dollar properties with 20 years experience and she’s sharing how she thinks through the levels of disrespect: - Why you have to clearly define limits of what’s acceptable and not - Redefining how you look at relationships as a successful woman - The grown and sexy way to do life after divorce and heartbreak Check out Tracy’s first interview with Lisa here: https://youtu.be/j5NHAdSCZig Dr. Zelana Montminy, the happiness researcher, a behavioral scientist focused on emotional wellbeing she refers to as mental fitness, rounds out this episode sharing her best tips from research on what makes us more happy and resilient. Tracy Tutor Quotes: “If you don’t define limits of what’s acceptable and what’s not then those types of things are going to happen and eventually someone’s going to cross a line that you might not be able to come back from.” “If I want to set boundaries with someone I don’t get to set them after I already screwed up along the way with fuzzy lines and then all of the sudden I decide to draw a line in the sand.” “Boundaries can be crossed and you can come back from them.” “We can’t point the finger at men forever for holding each other back. We have to elevate each other and be able to be all the things that we are and that includes boobs and a butt and a pair of heels and however we feel like doing our hair and makeup, that’s what makes us women.” “I’m not here to upset you, I’m here to shift you mindset that I can be many many things and those things include sexiness, funny, and really f*cking smart at the same time.” Dr. Zelana Quotes: “They’re content in a place of success not in spite of their hardships but because of them.” -Dr. Zelana Montminy “There’s ways you can be meditative without meditating.” -Dr. Zelana Montminy “Perfectionism comes from this need to control, this need to be really good at things, this need to excel, [...] there’s a way to channel perfect that can keep you motivated.” -Dr. Zelana Montminy Follow Tracy Tutor: Website: https://www.tracytutor.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCs_1Mw8sX8pfh8ARO3JesAg Twitter: https://twitter.com/thetracytutor Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tracytutor/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/losangelesluxuryrealestate/ Follow Zelana Montminy: Website: https://drzelana.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.zelana/