Today's delightful guest, Nicole Sodoma, is a seasoned divorce attorney of over two decades and the managing principal at Sodoma Law, based in Charlotte NC. Her debut book, "Please Don't Say You're Sorry: An Empowering Perspective on Marriage, Separation, and Divorce from a Marriage-Loving Divorce Attorney" will be released on May 24. She has also been through a divorce of her own, so needless to say, she's beyond qualified for today's "Confessions" episode! Nicole answers all of YOUR burning questions, and our conversation covers everything from her personal observations to (oftentimes surprising) divorce stats to invaluable life advice. Thanks to our sponsors: - Go to https://go.factor75.com/SHANDY120 and use code SHANDY120 to save $120! - Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to get 50% off your first month of premium CBD delivered directly to your door! - Go to https://www.magicspoon.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $5 off! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 35% off all bedding and loungewear! More Nicole Book - https://amzn.to/3K8j8Xv Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nicolesodoma/ Website - https://nicolesodoma.com Articles For HuffPost - https://www.huffpost.com/author/nicole-h-sodoma Sharleen is wearing: - top: https://bit.ly/37rhCRD If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion