Get a new operating system for your mind. Go to https://www.wakingup.com/solved to start today and get 14 days free. After hours breaking confidence down, Drew and I end on the question we've been circling the whole time: is confidence even the point? Here's something we didn't expect to find. For most of human history, confidence was not a compliment. The word comes from the Latin for "with faith," and the people who had too much of it were called confidence men, as in con artists. In this final chapter, we trace how a former insult became the thing everyone now chases, from William James and the shell-shocked soldiers of World War One to the modern self-help machine. Then we make the case for an older and better virtue: courage. We get into why you can be brave and terrified at the same time, the time we taught nervous drivers on a racetrack to prove it, and why chasing confidence directly is exactly backwards. Like happiness, it shows up as a byproduct of doing the work, never by aiming at it. Get your free PDF guide: https://solvedpodcast.com/confidence This is the final chapter of our episode on Confidence. New chapters drop every few days. Watch the full episode now on Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/a2fhww9a ⇨ Sign up for my newsletter, Your Next Breakthrough. It will help make you a less awful person: https://go.markmanson.net/cdi1xzha ⇨ Get clarity on what actually matters. Try Purpose, Mark's AI mentor app that learns your patterns, challenges your blind spots, and helps you take action. Get started at https://go.markmanson.net/217i5ys5 FOLLOW MARK Mark's IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/markmanson⁠ Solved IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/solvedpodcast/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://x.com/markmanson⁠ LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/markmanson/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@IAmMarkManson #Confidence #Courage #markmanson #Psychology