In this episode of Black Out, we are joined by Drea and Lex from Pour Minds to dive into some thought-provoking and controversial topics. We discuss whether it's possible to be with someone who has been intimate with their opposite-sex best friend and the right time to reveal your dark secrets when dating someone new. The conversation also covers red flags to look for in a man, understanding what an incel is, and why some men harbor hatred towards women. We explore how to deal with a partner who hasn’t reached the same level of success and the realization that the "bad b*tch" mentality is flawed. Additionally, we tackle whether Steve Kerr is a bad coach, the bizarre declaration of war on Elon Musk by Venezuelan leader Nicolás Maduro, and thoughts on Tory Lanez's driver claiming Tory was not the shooter. Lastly, we address two of the biggest failures in society that no one is talking about and the staggering US debt hitting $35 trillion. #BlackOutPodcast #PourMinds #Relationships #RedFlags #Incel #Success #BadBitchMentality #SteveKerr #NicolasMaduro #ElonMusk #ToryLanez #USDebt #ControversialTopics #DatingAdvice #SocietalFailures 0:00 Intro 3:57 Could You Date Someone Who Slept with Their Current Best Friend? 12:01 Discussing Unique Dating Situations 18:40 How to Deal with Groupies in Public 27:42 Should you Tell your Secrets When Dating Someone New? 30:47 Red Flags to Look For in a Man & Defining Incel 35:29 Is the Battle of Men and Women a “Black Issue”? 38:14 Being Aware of the Unrealistic Standards for Men 49:46 How to Thrive in the Saturated Creator Economy 51:51 How Women with Status Deal with Jealous Boyfriends 56:46 Ian & Rashad Post Discussion Convo 1:00:51 Is Steve Kerr a Bad Coach? 1:05:16 Venezuelan Leader Declares War on Elon Musk 1:11:40 Tory Lanez Driver Says he Was Not the Shooter 1:12:50 The 2 Biggest Failures of Modern Society 1:23:22 Outro