Is civilization making us smarter while disconnecting us from what matters most? In this episode, John Vervaeke speaks with Kyle, a deep nature connection practitioner and new father living in an intentional community in northern British Columbia, about applying Vervaeke’s work to raise children with belonging and connectedness. They explore cognition as a dynamical developmental process, how culture “raises” children increasingly through screens, and how capitalism functions as a dominant religion shaping salience and meaning. Drawing on McGilchrist and 4E cognitive science, they discuss left-hemisphere dominance, relevance realization, extended families and credible role models, narrative as “keeping track of tracking,” and the need for a meta-narrative beyond a chaos of stories. They consider kinship and indigenous worldviews, personhood as promise-making, the “spirit of place,” pilgrimage as transformative theoria, and a civium model combining Dunbar-scale communities with a more virtuous virtual world, including retreats like Reconnecting with the Real. Kyle Koch Nature Connection Expert: He bridges the gap between philosophical concepts and embodied reality through tracking, bird language, and nature-based core routines. Embodiment Practitioner: Coming from a background in Evolve Move Play, he focuses on reclaiming our innate sense of belonging within the natural world. To learn more about Kyle’s work or inquire about working with him, visit www.ecologyofconnection.com or contact him at kyle@ecologyofconnection.com The Matter With Things: https://channelmcgilchrist.com/the-matter-with-things Evolve Move Play: https://www.evolvemoveplay.com/ Follow John Vervaeke https://johnvervaeke.com/ https://x.com/DrJohnVervaeke https://www.youtube.com/@johnvervaeke https://www.patreon.com/johnvervaeke Thank you for watching!