Monthly episodes discussing this topic, 2021-02 to 2026-05.

Not enough disagreement in the transcripts to form camps. These are the positions taken by people with demonstrated expertise on this topic first, then by how many people heard them on it, then by VoiceRank.

Stephanie SoohostUnrated

The participant's behavior on the show is often indicative of whether they are a 'red flag' or genuinely seeking connection.

“Both are red flags. Oh, yeah. But, out of these two, who's the bigger red flag? I think Zizi is worse because I think outside of this show, none of these girls would have given them the day. Like the time of day. But, they would because he will love bomb you.”

Stephanie Soo · May 2026 · 2 episodes · 2.8M views on this topic

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