The disorientations of mid-life serve as potential catalysts for spiritual growth and deeper self-inquiry.

“the things that don't work constantly entertaining ourselves const over stimulating over learning over everything when it doesn't work that's another crack that the light gets through”

She argues that she and her husband approach their mid-life crises differently, with she prioritizing stability and him seeking to tap into his potential.

“So, that's where I think we differentiate on on midlife crisis. And this is why we're together, you know, this is why we're such a great pair. I mean, I and you know, thinking back, we got we got married in 2014. Like, on paper, we're we're very far apart, but we started getting closer and closer to”

A mid-life crisis involves radical changes in routine and the pursuit of impulsive desires to feel a sense of freedom.

“when I had the midlife crisis mindset just breaking the normal routine was a sense of freedom for me wanting to do what I wanted when I wanted to do it for as long as I wanted to do it”