Telling a woman to calm down when she is upset is ineffective and likely to escalate the conflict.

“it didn't work it never does it does no one's ever told their go like calm down man and then be like okay it just doesn't work it just doesn't work like that yeah they double down yeah damn and the more you plead the worse it gets”

Being pantsed in public and held down by an assailant is a traumatizing experience that one cannot simply recover from.

“pull my trousers down and underwear and held them down with their foot that's the most traumatic thing I can possibly imagine hel it down with their foot you get pants and someone holds it down with their foot so you have you have to bend over and fight fight that cheeks out cheeks tanning spread yo”