Boundaries are meant to define your own actions based on what others do, not to control the other person's behavior.

“Boundaries are about and I think this is a really important point related to this, which is that when you set a boundary, you're deciding for yourself what you will do, not what the other person will do.”

Jennifer argues that it is weird and boundaryless for parents to have an overly enmeshed social relationship with their young children.

“I always know it is a massive massive red flag when the parent says the child is their best friend or the child says their parent is their best friend you know that this is a very boundaryless in mesed toxic situation and that little kid is going to have big big adult problems”

It is unacceptable for people to continue talking after being told that the current time is not suitable for a conversation.

“I have had it with people when you tell them I can't talk right now that continue to [ __ ] talk”

People should never insert objects into their rectum that do not have a base to prevent them from becoming trapped.

“I will never put anything up my butt without a base on it”