Individuals should move past petty disagreements with their mothers, as life is short and one only has one mother.

“you gotta understand that she only get one of them man you know I'm saying you only get one of them so you know no matter what y'all go through whatever issues y'all might have you only get one of them”

He maintains the stance that his father is male, though he refers to him as 'parent' to avoid conflict while refusing to use female-gendered titles.

“That's kind of like the agreement that my dad and I were able to come to to say that he's my parent instead of having to use a pronoun.”

Lilly Singh encourages making a genuine effort to understand the perspective of one's parents rather than simply labeling them as toxic.

“Put yourself in your in their shoes before you write it off. That's great advice.”

Parents should avoid controlling their children and instead support them in choosing their own paths.

“my mom's always trying to control me my dad's always trying to control me because like they they they try to set you up for a past success and like yes that is nice but you should let them choose what their ping success is”