While society has improved its open dialogue surrounding general domestic violence, the specific subject of breakup violence remains under-discussed.

“I mean as a society we've gotten better about talking about domestic violence in general I think we're headed in a good direction there much more open dialogue but one term that we just don't bring up very often is Breakup violence”

Abuse involves control and isolation, and it is crucial to recognize that love should not cause pain or discomfort.

“I told you earlier I said um when you are uncomfortable doesn't matter what it is it is a form of abuse when you are crying because love doesn't hurt it's not supposed to hurt”

Men must take themselves out of a masculine mindset to empathize with the experience of those being abused.

“we have to take ourselves out of this masculine manly place and put ourselves in the position of being abused whether it's mentally uh verbally emotionally or physically”

Physical violence against women is unjustifiable because it is an act of bullying rather than an even fight.

“you a big ass dude hitting on a woman that's not a fight that's ass kicking like what's that what sense does that make”