A public, face-to-face conversation is the best way to resolve misunderstandings and address points of tension.

“I almost wish that we could have like spoke immediately I think that that might have you know would maybe clear some things up”

Publicly addressing offensive comments is necessary to show support for the community and provide a voice for those who feel demeaned.

“whoever had that wound just maybe they hear me and for once they was like man at least that dude stood up for us and then at least somebody who had that experience stood up for us that must have felt good for some people”