One cannot expect to change a partner's fundamental personality or traits, so one must decide if they can live with those characteristics as they are.

“you can't change men. You can't change anyone. You can't you can't It's not men. It's you can't change anyone. that is something engraved in their personality. Yeah, you can't change people. No matter how much you think that you can.”

It is a red flag when partners are misogynistic or exhibit an old-fashioned mindset regarding gender roles.

“my thing with Korean men are like they're very just misogynist. Like women have to be at home and like be um child taker like dinner has to be ready by 6:00 when I get home from work.”

Performing a vow renewal is a definitive indicator that a marriage will end in divorce within five years.

“I think that the biggest red flag in a marriage I mean the biggest bar is a vow renewal I think that's number one like I know immediately within 5 years you're going to be divorced”