She decided against accepting a settlement to keep her relationship experiences private because she does not want to trade her dignity for money to protect someone who harmed her.

“I didn't sign the NDA I didn't take the money because I'm not signing away my experiences and what I went through to protect someone that hurt me and I'm a lot stronger than a weak man and I'm not [ __ ] you [ __ ] your money [ __ ] you”

She believes in keeping relationships private until one decides they want a public relationship.

“I like learn to keep all relationships private as hell because i was very this boyfriend very private no one knew about him and then i realized i was like okay maybe i want a public boyfriend blah blah so then i started dating guys publicly like who i was just like oh my god who”

She believes it is reasonable to expect privacy in one's marital bed and that it is inappropriate for others to use it without permission.

“I just need to change the sheets in the blanket yeah so the husband is pissed that's weird and the fact that he's like visibly showing that to the brother-in-law sir get it together you need some emotional IQ”

Sharing sacred or difficult parts of life with the wrong people can be detrimental and drain one's energy.

“I do believe that sometimes oversharing or not sharing to the right people can be really detrimental to what whatever it is that you're talking about.”

Abby finds graphic comments about her pregnancy body on social media to be inappropriate and creepy.

“what some men fetishize pregnant bellies and I get really like ran not it doesn't happen a lot but I get really random just graphic DMS about things about my belly and like what they want to do with my belly that is are you serious it doesn't happen a lot but now that the bump has grown quite a bit”

Setting a boundary or expressing discomfort when a partner engages in behavior that causes distress is reasonable and necessary in a relationship.

“If you tell your partner that something hurts you and they keep doing it, it's no longer unintentional. Full stop. Period. Regardless of what's after that.”

A person should immediately cease any behavior that makes their partner uncomfortable once that boundary has been clearly communicated.

“I think if you tell someone like no seriously, I don't like that, it should be respected and they should stop.”