Jennifer regrets sending her children to private religious schools that supported institutionalized homophobia and views them as detrimental.

“one of the biggest regrets that I have is where I sent my kids to school and luckily not by anything other than just pure luck I'm so grateful that they came out of that and were like what the [ __ ] just happened to me how why did you send us there what were you thinking”

Angie considers it a source of deep shame and regret to have sent her children to schools that fostered homophobic and white supremacist environments.

“but you know I just I look at that and I just think how was I so stupid what was wrong with me and then I go through the years of therapy and I'm able to identify most of those pretty quickly but it really is when I hear you say that like coming from the outside looking in yeah it's so gross”