It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Why aren't there more single "Andy"s out there, and is finding one just a matter of luck? What does it mean if your parents tell you your husband is controlling, yet this is news to you? What to do when your two besties becomes enemies with each other, and you're caught in the middle? Finally, if you love your friends but not their pigsty of a house, should you still visit and stay as a gesture of love? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first mani system! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code "SHANDY" for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://piquelife.com/SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Just type https://dupe.com/ before any product URL in your browser and instantly find more affordable alternatives! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:50 - Q1: Is Finding My “Andy” Just A Matter Of Luck? 21:47 - Q2: Is My Husband Controlling Or Are My Parents Gaslighting Me? 33:02 - Q3: My Friends Have Become Enemies & I’m Stuck In The Middle—Help! 53:08 - Q4: Are Our Friends Too Filthy Or Are We Too Judgmental? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion #relationshipadvice #couplegoals #relationships #datingadvice #dating #dearshandy #love #q&a #friendship #friendshipadvice #weddingadvice #dating101