People should not use trauma or labels as excuses for treating others poorly.

“Everyone goes through trauma in their lives. It's valid what you went through, but at the same time, it's not an excuse to treat people horribly.”

Procrastinators should accept their nature instead of trying to force themselves into structured productivity systems.

“the way to live with your life if you're a procrastinator if you have trouble with keeping organized and staying motivated is to embrace who you are to embrace that you will always be that person who at the last minute is like oh that's du today and then you scramble to get that [ __ ] done”

The first action taken after waking up establishes the tone for the entire day.

“I'm a big believer in the first thing you do in the morning will set the tone for the every like the entirety of your day if you start off your day by picking up your phone and looking at it that will set the tone for the rest of your day”

Someone who is at least 29 years old and fails to provide for their own child's basic needs is not a suitable partner.

“hello if a man can't even take care of something as basic and essential as diapers then why are you for a child yeah for a child that is completely healthy can't put his child's needs ahead of his own yeah and especially the age of 29 like that's not like oh he's 21”

One should not stay in a relationship out of obligation to their partner's financial or immigration needs.

“and you shouldn't get married out of obligation no starting immigrants it's never gonna work out and especially if he likes you if he's in love with you and you don't feel the same way back it's just that's just even more hurtful”

Andy maintains that ending a relationship that is not destined to last is a brave and moral act.

“It's a brave moral high ground place to be to end a relationship that you know is probably or most likely going to end one day.”

Using a fake allergy is an effective and necessary excuse to avoid visiting a home with unsanitary animal conditions.

“Your son's developed a cat allergy.”