If you enjoyed this episode, I recommend you check out my first conversation with Paul Brunson, which you can find here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H4EYLof2_HU 00:00 Intro 02:14 What Do You Do? 05:52 What History Tells Us About Our Current Relationship Needs 10:07 Why Arranged Marriages Last Longer 15:05 Why 80% of Marriages Are Unsatisfied 20:14 Your Friends Know If Your Partner Is the One 21:19 Find Personal Satisfaction; It Determines Your Relationship's Outcome 24:35 Stop Expecting That Love Will Fix Your Life 27:34 Love Is Not Like The Movies 31:38 Why Men Are Struggling 37:36 The Golden Mean: The Ratio of Attractiveness 41:55 Find the Value You Bring to the Dating Market 46:17 The Premium Effect 53:20 Improving Low Self-Esteem 59:27 Older Generations in the Dating World 01:05:31 How to Go About Our Negative Traits 01:09:25 Does the Sex Ratio Matter? 01:15:02 How to Teach Your Children to Be in Successful Relationships 01:18:52 Concerns Around Child Rate Decline 01:25:40 Gen Z Knows What We Need to Sustain a Healthy Relationship 01:30:29 What Are the Different Attachment Styles in a Relationship 01:33:50 Our Attachment Style and Sex Patterns 01:39:37 What to Look for in a Relationship 01:48:35 Why Narcissists Are Attractive 01:49:48 Watch Out: 14% of the Population Are Psychopaths, Sadists & Narcissists 01:55:05 Red Flags in a Partner 02:01:09 The Four Horsemen 02:03:36 The Importance of Conflict Resolution 02:07:01 The Last Guest Question You can purchase Paul’s book, ‘Find Love’, here: https://amzn.to/49gGOFd Follow Paul: Twitter - https://bit.ly/49cXbmg Instagram - https://bit.ly/3u5JTcx Get tickets to The Business & Life Speaking Tour: https://stevenbartlett.com/tour/ Follow me: https://beacons.ai/diaryofaceo Sponsors: Huel: https://g2ul0.app.link/G4RjcdKNKsb