Successful romantic relationships require mutually respectful communication and development rather than assuming a partner must perfectly align with one's own predispositions.

“I think you can have two people that are that went very very different things whether it's in sex or in business or their beliefs about religion and spirituality be bound together as long as they have respectful communication”

Sex should be viewed as a language and a flexible experience rather than a performative act governed by scripts learned from pornography.

“tantric sex was the first thing that I came across that made me realize and really articulated that sex is actually not a specific destination”