He believes the husband in the bidet story is not an asshole for giving a gift that is both thoughtful and funny.

“He's like overdoing it so he so she was [ __ ] pissed when she saw what I got for her she said I was insinuating that she has a dirty ass and then I was passively aggressively telling her she needed to clean herself better I mean that doesn't seem fair”

She believes the husband in the bidet story is the asshole for potentially giving an inappropriate gift, though she acknowledges the perspective of him being a good boyfriend.

“it's a little presumptive to just buy somebody a bedet without any heads up like that's a big that's a life style change I'd say you know and it is it's a big decision”