The change in his own life occurred only when his opinion of himself changed rather than relying on books or external techniques.

“I read all the books about you know I read this book in this matchmaking book and this book called The Game the mystery method I watched all the documentaries and the only reason it changed in my life was when my actual opinion of myself changed”

People should intentionally use positive self-talk and affirmations, even if they feel like lies, to retrain their mind.

“well I think you should lie to yourself I think you should lie to yourself I think you should lie cheat and steal every day of your life lie to your mind cheat fear and steal back the confidence you were born with”

Using intentional positive self-talk and affirmations allows an individual to replace inherited negative voices with their own desired truth.

“I had to create this connection with affirmations that allowed me to say what I wanted to hear. And so, I had to become very mindful to notice the negative so that I could replace it. And when I did that, it really changed everything.”