Dr. Anvita Madan-Bahel and I discuss how as a species, we worry about our orgasms. We chase them, talk about them, study them, analyse them, we are constantly wondering how to access them. And yet when it comes to actually feeling pleasure we consciously or unconsciously block it. Instead of allowing the brain to feel, we drown it in logistics, we give it instructions like a traffic cop, we get judgy because it is showing up in the wrong way or at the wrong time or with the wrong optics. And then we wonder why we cannot feel anything. Pleasure is not a performance and it does not follow orders. If you want to feel more, you have to stop policing your desire and start listening to it. Follow the cues your body is giving you. Let yourself feel what is already there. If you would like advice from Seema Anand or a consultation with Dr. Anvita Madan-Bahel, send us a brief question/message to: ✉️Seema Anand: info.seema.anand@gmail.com ✉️Anvita Madan-Bahel: anvita.madanbahel@gmail.com Latest in Seema Anand Storytelling: 🎧 The 3000 step stories - https://anchor.fm/seemaanand Seema Anand Book: The Arts of Seduction: The 21st century guide to having the greatest s3x of your life 📚 https://www.amazon.in/Seema-Anand/e/B07FZWZNP8/ref=dp_byline_cont_pop_book_1 Official Social Profiles of Seema Anand (Don't forget to follow and subscribe) 🌐 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCv8O9vXuvJGY7PAy_rohQpA 🌐 https://www.facebook.com/groups/960439877368429 🌐 https://www.instagram.com/seemaanandstorytelling/?hl=en Make sure to like, comment and subscribe. ***Disclaimer: No attachments please, and they will not be looked at. Only one question will be answered each week. We regret that we will not be able to enter into any personal correspondence. All opinions and advice given here are of a generic nature. It is not a substitute for medical consultation.